How things are going to be direct, or go, or what people can do, can often be scary for people being able to. As a result they just about everyone and his / her life or may be trying to control everything.
You dictate how long you will live, or if you can or will be ill, or whether you or another person, his / her work, or lose the house, or if someone moves, or leave you asks for, or passes away, or even if you can get anywhere on time, etc.
For himself or another the best of intentions sometimes do not work out just the way that you do not agree with it or not.
as planned.
Sometimes a regular day, you think you may be able to regulate such a simple thing can change quickly when you wake in the morning.
One minute the word "control" Think of ... When you do, you can feel the quality of electricity? "I'm in control."
If you are feeling strong, you feel powerless or do not be afraid of what might result.
Often when a person's life seems a bit out of control, he / she or they have more power, you can usually have something about themselves, another person, or finds their immediate life .
There being in power, being powerless, or is a big difference between being strong.
If you are in power, or in other words are in control, you may feel a certain strength or okayness, a sense that you can handle things, you are in the driver's seat, which directs you are to be or how things should be.
When you are strong, you understand your need to control and there is a desire to settle for. As they say, "Let go and let God."
If we control our lives or else why would anyone want? Often, maybe we do not believe it.
We do not believe, any other person, or a situation, we / they can get hurt, or we may lose our power. We are afraid of how things will happen.
How do you let go of your controlling behavior? Be aware of them.
Awareness is a key to real change. It unlocks the door to freedom, to control the world from your shoulders, lift free weights and all the results. Wow ... I do not know about you, but that's a relief.
Are trying to control something or someone that you think about? Imagine letting go, and all the details are taken care of. How are you feeling? Do you feel like a weight has been lifted?
Ask if you have a situation in his day, the individual results, or are controlled. You may be surprised at how often you are doing.
Ask yourself, "Why I want to control the person or situation?" "What if I do not fear me?" "What would I do that?"
Being a control individual or control the behavior did not happen overnight and that's not who you are.It's probably for quite some time and a part of your life or you may not have recognized it. Be patient with yourself.
Today, you come, bring your awareness to it can start to get out of control.
Remember, you have the option of being in power, being powerless or powerful. Which will you choose today?
Kimberley Cohen Founder, convenience and personal Insight Insight technology and business coach.
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